Information
The plan for the day. We'll update timings and locations as details are locked in, but this should give you the shape of things.
Pre-party (TBC)
We're still deciding whether to host a small pre-party on the weekend before the celebration. Watch this space.
Monday, 13 July 2026
Everything is happening at the same venue in Oxford, so once you're there, you're in the right place.
Dress code
It's no secret that in our thirties we've developed a fascination for our feathered friends 🐦 (how cliché!). We would love for you to join us in “stealing their look” 🕵️ either by finding the bird that matches your favourite outfit or styling it out like a bird that inspires you. There is no formality requirement, and most importantly wear something that brings you joy!
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The venue has outdoor grassy areas so plan footwear accordingly. DANCERS: there will be a marquee with wooden flooring so you might want to bring your dancing shoes 🩰.
Gifts
As cliché as it sounds, your presence is the only present we need 😉. But if that doesn't feel like enough to you, the following charities mean a lot to us:
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Home time
Strict rules from the venue, music off at 11 and everyone out by 11:30pm please. We're seeing what can be done about an afterparty for anyone still standing...
Artwork
Our lovely invite and illustrations were designed by the talented graphic artist, Celia Ivey. Celia and Kat are long-time friends who go way back — childhood beachcombing in Cornwall, pen-paling in their teens, and now nattering about adulthood over coffee with Kat's sister in Portishead. Celia has done the artwork for a number of children's books including Dad Mops by Roisin Leahy, and Little Big Sister by the acclaimed Eoin Colfer. Check out more of her fabulous art on Instagram @ink_baby_.
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